Mid life crisis of an Ohio Queen

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Ohio International Pageants on Facebook

I am so excited. I have officially created my first group on Facebook. It is for the Ohio International Pageants. I am currently the Alumni Director for the new Executive Director and we are doing our best to expand the Ohio International group and involve those who have been a part of the system.

I did not get a chance to really post some photos from the pageant so I am going to post some now.

Feel free to visit our page on Facebook. I look forward to reconnecting to all of the former competitors. It will be a blast!!!

Here are the pics for your enjoyment....










Sunday, April 13, 2008

Parents Beware!!!

I received this e-mail from a friend of mine in Utah and I felt it important to share this with all of you. Please take this seriously as I certainly have.

Please read this story and be aware of the dangers of DUSTING. Some of
you might have this in your classrooms or at home. It is very
dangerous. Thanks, Officer Carter and Harwood

D U S T I N G

First, I'm going to tell you a little about me and my family. My name
is Jeff. I am a Police Officer for a city which is known nationwide
for its crime rate. We have a lot of gangs and drugs. At one point we
were #2 in the nation in homicides per capita. I also have a police
K-9 named Thor. He was certified in drugs and general duty. He retired
at 3 years old because he was shot in the line of duty. He lives with
us now and I still train with him because he likes it. I always liked
the fact that there was no way to bring drugs into my house. Thor
wouldn't allow it. He would tell on you. The reason I say this is so
you understand that I know about drugs.

I have taught in schools about drugs. My wife asks all our kids at
least once a week if they used any drugs. Makes them promise they
won't.

I like building computers occasionally and started building a new one
in February 2005. I also was working on some of my older computers.
They were full of dust so on one of my trips to the computer store I
bought a 3 pack of DUST OFF. Dust Off is a can of compressed air to
blow dust off a computer. A few weeks later when I went to use one of
them they were all used. I talked to my kids and my two sons both said
they had used them on their computer and messing around with them. I
yelled at them for wasting the 10 dollars I paid for them.

On February 28 I went back to the computer store. They didn't have the
3 pack which I had bought on sale so I bought a single jumbo can of
Dust Off. I went home and set it down beside my computer. On March
1st, I left for work at 10 PM. Just before midnight my wife went down
and kissed Kyle goodnight. At 5:30 am the next morning Kathy went
downstairs to wake Kyle up for school, before she left for work. He
was propped up in bed with his legs crossed and his head leaning over.
She called to him a few times to get up. He didn't move. He would
sometimes tease her like this and pretend he fell back asleep. He was
never easy to get up. She went in and shook his arm. He fell over. He
was pale white and had he straw from the Dust Off can coming out of
his mouth. He had the new can of Dust Off in his hands. Kyle was dead.

I am a police officer and I had never heard of this. My wife is a
nurse and she had never heard of this. We later found out from the
coroner, after the autopsy, that only the propellant from the can of
Dust off was in his system. No other drugs. Kyle had died between
midnight and 1 AM.

I found out that using Dust Off is being done mostly by kids ages 9 through 15. They even have a name for it. It's called dusting. A take off from the Dust Off name. It gives them a slight high for about 10 seconds. It makes them dizzy. A boy who lives
down the street from us showed Kyle how to do this about a month before. Kyle showed his best friend. Told him it was cool and it couldn't hurt you. It's just compressed air. It can't hurt you. His best friend said no.

Kyle was wrong. It's not just compressed air. It also contains a propellant called R2. It's a refrigerant like what is used in your refrigerator. It is a heavy gas, heavier than air. When you inhale it, it fills your lungs and keeps the good air, with oxygen, out that's why you feel dizzy, buzzed. It decreases the oxygen to your brain, to your heart. Kyle was right. It can't hurt you. IT KILLS YOU!

The horrible part about this is there is no warning. There is no level that kills you. It's not cumulative or an overdose; it can just go randomly, terribly wrong. Roll the dice and if your number comes up you die. IT'S NOT AN OVERDOSE. It's Russian Roulette. You don't die later. Or not feel good and say I've had too much. You usually die as you're breathing it in, if not you die within 2 seconds of finishing 'the hit.' That's why the straw was still in Kyle's mouth when he died. Why his eyes were still open.

The experts want to call this huffing. The kids don't believe its huffing. As adults we tend to lump many things together. But it doesn't fit here. And that's why it's more accepted. There is no chemical reaction, no strong odor. It doesn't follow the huffing signals. Kyle complained a few days before he died of his tongue hurting. It probably did. The propellant causes frostbite. If I had only known.

It's easy to say hey, it's my life and I'll do what I want. But it isn't. Others are always affected. This has forever changed our family's life. I have a hole in my heart and soul that can never be fixed. The pain is so immense I can't describe it. There's nowhere to run from it. I cry all the time and I don't ever cry. I do what I'm supposed to do but I don't really care. My kids are messed up. One won't talk about it. The other will only sleep in our room at night. And my wife, I can't even describe how bad she is taking this.

I thought we were safe because of Thor. I thought we were safe because we knew about drugs and talked to our kids about them.

After Kyle died another story came out. A probation Officer went to the school system next to ours to speak with a student. While there he found a student using Dust Off in the bathroom. This student told him about another student who also had some in his locker. This is a rather affluent school system. They will tell you they don't have a drug problem there. They don't even have a dare or plus program there.
So rather than tell everyone about this 'new' way of getting high they found, they hid it.

The probation officer told the media after Kyle's death and they, the school, then admitted to it. I know that if they would have told the media and I had heard, it wouldn't have been in my house.

We need to get this out of our homes and school computer labs. Using Dust Off isn't new and some 'professionals' do know about. It just isn't talked about much, except by the kids. They all seem to know about it.

April 2nd was 1 month since Kyle died. April 5th would have been his 15th birthday. And every weekday I catch myself sitting on the living room couch at 2:30 in the afternoon and waiting to see him get off the bus. I know Kyle is in heaven but I can't help but wonder if I died and went to Hell.

This Officer is asking for EVERYONE who receives this email to forward
it to everyone in their address book, even Law Enforcement Officers. Even if you do not have children, you can still forward this to friends & family who do.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Congratulations MONICA DAY!! Miss Congeniality at Miss USA

Congratulations Monica!!! I was beyond thrilled when I saw on television that she won Miss Congeniality! To know Monica is to totally understand how she was chosen. She is not only one of the sweetest women that I have ever met, she is also the funniest. She can always keep me cracking up when I am around her.

I was bummed for her when she did not make Top 15. Seriously, what were the judges thinking? Did they lose their brains somewhere along the way. She looked stunning and confident and she is a heck of an interviewer!!! The girl has the gift of gab for the good!!! Here are a few photos of her from preliminary competition.




I was not 100% impressed with last nights competition. Majority of the girls in the Top 15 were more of a box shape. Not many curves. I do not even recall one of the women with an hourglass figure! Even if they had implants it did not make a different in their shape. And do not even get me started on the gowns. There was not ONE evening gown that I was completely blown away by. I started looking more toward the non-finalists and their gowns caught my attention more than the Top Ten gowns!! That is sad.

Also, can I say that I was beyond furious with Channel 4 here in Columbus last night. I understand that weather reports are somewhat considered important but not on pageant night! COME ON!!! Especially when one of your own reporters is a participant in the pageant. Where is the love!!! I missed all of the opening number and state intros. It was not a pleasant night in the house until the pageant finally came on. Then it was on to the Top 15.

I had to say that I did have Texas picked all along. She was the strongest in competition in every phase. I thought that it was funny that both of the states that I have lived in both won something important. Although I wish it could have been the other way with Texas winning Congeniality and Ohio winning the crown of Miss USA but there is something else meant for our lovely Miss Ohio and I know that for her sake it will be incredible.

Here is a photo montage of our new Miss USA, Crystal Stewart. Congratulation.

Sunday, April 06, 2008

Spring Fever

I am so far behind it is not even funny!! So instead of going back I am going to press on and move forward.

This weekend has been extremely useful. I have finally gotten a chance to get some much needed housework done. It is a myth that if you work from home that you should be able to get lots done around the house. I am about to disspell that rumor. It is completely false. I have the hardest time keeping up. I need a housekeeper and cannot afford one. I wish I could find the one that cleaned my neighbors house for $50 and a lunch of Power Bars and apples!!!

I managed to open all the windows throughout the house and completely air out the house which has lifted my entire spirit. I needed that. I have also vacuumed all of the carpets, put all the laundry away, cleaned all of the mirrors and much much more. I feel a bit better now.

On to tackle my work week. I need more life insurance and more policies. I had a decent first quarter but not enough life which can hurt my job. I do not want to go through that again!! So I shall press forward and work as hard as I can this quarter.

I am super excited for a few events that are coming up. This month is Miss USA 2008 and my dear friend, Monica Day, is competing as Miss Ohio USA. I am so nervous for her but I know she will rock it!! Next month I am attending something called a Diva Crop. The woman that is hosting it is renting TWO stretch limos, one Hummer and one Excursion limo, for the event. We will be driven all over Columbus to four scrapbooking stores and then returning to crop until midnight. My friend Catwoman is going with me and we are looking to make it an entire weekend. Then in July there is a bunch of us going to Mrs. International to watch the competition. My friend Kesh has fondly called it Mrs Ohio Gone Wild!! We are excited at the low cost that she got for the rooms and for the experience. We had both competed there but to watch as a spectator will be a blast. There are four of us going.

More to share in detail later. Here is hoping that I can keep up with blogging for now.