Mid life crisis of an Ohio Queen

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

What Men Are Really Like

1. Men are like Laxatives...They irritate the crap out of you.
2. Men are like Bananas...The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like Weather... Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like Blenders... You need one, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like Chocolate Bars... Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like Commercials... You can't believe all they say.
7. Men are like Department Stores... Their clothes are always 1/2 off.
8 . Men are like Government Bonds... They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like Mascara... They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like Popcorn... They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like Snowstorms... You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like Lava Lamps... Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like Parking Spots... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.

The Compassion of a Child

I had an amazing experience last night. I saw where my child has learned compassion. And it was very endearing. Here is the story:

I was laying on the couch in a little ball. I was cold but not cold enough to get myself off the couch and get a blanket.

B comes over to me and asks "Mommy, are you cold?"

I reply "yes, but I am okay."

"Oh, I will go get you a blanket." says B as he dashes off to the closet.

He opens the door and grabs my favorite blanket. He comes to the couch and unfolds it. Then he takes the blanket and covers me with it along with tucking me into it.

"Are you better now Mommy?" B asks.

"Much better. Thank you!" I reply with tears in my eyes.

It is proof that I am raising a caring and loving child and I could not be any more proud.

Note: When I was beign tucked in, he forgot to tuck the covers around my feet. But I was so touched I didn't even bother to correct it. I just wanted to savor that moment and enjoy it for all it was worth.

Monday, February 27, 2006

5 Important Lessons

I received this e-mail from Catwoman. It made me think. Should I pass this on to a select few friends or should I share it with everyone willing to read it so they can get the true meaning of the message.

I chose to share. Enjoy and remember the lessons involved.


1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.

During my second month of college, our professor
Gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student
And had breezed through the questions until I read
The last one:

"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"
Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the
Cleaning woman several times. She was tall,
Dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper, leaving the last question
Blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if
The last question would count toward our quiz grade.

"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers,
You will meet many people. All are significant. They
Deserve your attention and care, even if all you do
Is smile and say "hello."

I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her
Name was Dorothy.

2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain

One night, at 11:30 P.M., an older African American
Woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway
Trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had
Broken down and she desperately needed a ride.
Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.
A young white man stopped to help her, generally
Unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man
Took her to safety, helped her get assistance and
Put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his
Address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a
Knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a
Giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A
Special note was attached..

It read:
"Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway
The other night. The rain drenched not only my
Clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.
Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying
Husband's' bedside just before he passed away... God
Bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving
Others."

Sincerely,
Mrs. Nat King Cole.


3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those
Who serve.


In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,
A 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and
Sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in
Front of him.

"How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked.

"Fifty cents," replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and
Studied the coins in it.

"Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the
Waitress was growing impatient.

"Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins.

"I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on
The table and walked away. The boy finished the ice
Cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress
Came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the
Table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,
Were two nickels and five pennies..

You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had
To have enough left to leave her a tip.


4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a
Roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if
Anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the
King's' wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by
And simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the
King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did
Anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of
Vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the
Peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the
Stone to the side of the road. After much pushing
And straining, he finally succeeded. After the
Peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed
A purse lying in the road where the boulder had
Been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note
From the King indicating that the gold was for the
Person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The
Peasant learned what many of us never understand!

Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve
Our condition.


5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a
hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who
was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only
chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had
miraculously survived the same disease and had
developed the antibodies needed to combat the
illness. The doctor explained the situation to her
little brother, and asked the little boy if he would
be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a
deep breath and saying, "Yes I'll do it if it will
save her." As the transfusion progressed, he lay in
bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did,
seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his
face grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a
trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away".

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the
doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his
sister all of his blood in order to save her.


Now you have 2 choices.

1. Delete this e-mail, or
2. Forward it to people you care about.
I hope that you will choose No. 2 and remember.

Most importantly.................. "Work like you
don't need the money, love like you've never been
hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching."

NOW more than ever - Peace...Pass It On.....

Friday, February 24, 2006

ADHD anyone?

I swear, there are days I really believe that I have ADHD. Today is one of them.

I have had one heck of a week. Lots going on and all of it interesting. Lots of drama with policyholders at work. Somedays I feel like I am in the middle of a soap opera. Without actress pay.

Today I just cannot focus. My mind goes from one thing to the next in a matter of minutes. I have just finished late pay calls and now on to marketing calls. But I can't decide which ones to do first.

Do I do life insurance calls? Bank loan refinance calls? UL reproposals? Prepare for my meetings tomorrow morning? Eat a sandwich? Run pre-approvals?

See what I mean. I need a nap!

Thursday, February 23, 2006

Early Morning

It has been an extremely early morning.

Today, we had a marketing activity that we were doing at an apartment complex near by. We had to be at the office by 6:15 AM. I had the hardest time getting out of bed. The snooze button was getting a workout.

So alas, I got up, did my hair and make-up and got dressed. Leaned in to give E a kiss and went into B's room to give him a kiss and start getting him up. As I leaned in to kiss him he asked a very sweet request:

"Mommy, can you give me a piggyback to your bedroom?"

How could I refuse?!!? I had him hop on my back and took him to my bed to snuggle up to his daddy. Wish I could have stayed and did the same.

On a positive note, I get to go home early from work today. Maybe I will get some packing done. I have already packed two 120 gallon totes. Only have a bunch more to go.

Sigh.

Tuesday, February 21, 2006

Tips on Saving Money

This post almost sounds crazy coming from me, but I have received some good tips lately and wanted to share them with you.

Mom and I started talking and had a wonderful idea. We as a whole family are going to take a cruise together. My parents went on an Alaskan cruise in 2004 and want to take another cruise. I forfeited the cruise I won because we are moving back to Ohio and the rules state that you have to be employed by your current agent at the time of the cruise which was not happening for me. And my brother feels that he will never have the money or the chance to take a cruise. So we decided to make it a family effort. We are going to aim for next year and save in the current year until we depart for the vacation.

We need a minimum of $5,000 for all seven of us (hopefully eight at the time) to fly to and from the cruise port and per person on the cruise. We have decided how we are going to try to get this done.

Here are a few things we are going to try. Let me know if you have any others that could work:

  • $10-$20 per pay - we are going to automatically take this amount and put it aside per pay period. This will ensure that we are keeping up our end of the bargain
  • Garage sales - we are going to go through all of our stuff and try to sell as much as we can. A portion to pay bills and the other portion to sock away. Besides, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
  • CD's anyone - have to give a little boast on what I like to sell. State Farm Bank CD's. For a one year CD the percentage is over 4%. Therefore, we can earn money while it is sitting there. And for every $500 we do that with, it will add up quick.
  • Quarter rally - when we receive quarters from cash purchases, instead of spending them we are going to save them. My mom did this one year and at the end of the year she had $550 saved. Not bad!
  • How much for groceries?!?!? - this tip came from my cousin. Take a look at the grocery bill at the end of your trip. Find the amount that was saved from buy one get one free or discounts due to shopping cards and put that money away for savings. You were going to end up spending it anyway, might as well save it and put it away.

There are a few for food. I found other tips for families and how to save money. Here are some that I found:

  • Save the juice from canned fruit (not the syrup kind, the juice kind) and add a little bit of water. Mix it together and put them in ice cube trays and make popsicles.
  • Find manufacturer coupons and take advantage of double and triple coupon offers. The food items can actually become free from this.
  • BOGO is our friend. Take advantage of buy one get one if you will actually use the item.
  • Go in with others on wholesale items from wholesale clubs. You can each get what you need and at a fraction of the price.
  • Eat a big meal before shopping. It curbs impulse buying. And you get your exercise while you walk the store.
  • Invest money into a Pizzazz pizza maker and buy frozen pizzas. Store brands are usually the best and you save a bunch of money. We have done this and on average for a pizza dinner it is under $6. I don't know where you can get a delivery pizza for that cost even on a good day.
  • Keep your freezer full. That way it runs more efficiently and uses less electricity.
  • If grocery shopping at Wal-Mart, buy their brand of food. That can save you quite a bit of money. For example: Crystal Light To Go is usually about $2.50. The Wal-Mart brand is $1.76. Get the picture?
  • Shop at Big Lots for non-perishable items. They are really inexpensive and can save you from when you go to the regular grocery store.

Now if you are looking for cheap family activities, here are some suggestions:

  • Take your kids to Storytime at the local library. It helps to develop their minds and gives them a chance to explore their imagination.
  • Pack a picnic lunch and go to the park. Costs less than stopping for fast food and you save on calories.
  • Go to a play area at a fast food restaurant. Get an item from the dollar menu and let your kids play until they wear themselves out.
  • Save on a movie by going to a dollar theatre. Yes, they are still around!!! Or splurge a little and go to a matinee during the day.
  • Find out what movies your friends have and swap them for a Family Movie Night. Saves on rental fees and your friends get to watch a movie they don't own either.
  • Find out what family activities your local church has. They may have picnics or nights designed for family fun.
  • Check the newspaper or local rec centers for activities that they have planned. Mark them on your calendar.
  • Find out where there are local water play areas at. I know that at Easton Towne Center in Columbus the kids can play in the fountains there and they LOVE it.

Hope that this has helped you out a bit. Please feel free to leave other suggestions that I may not have put down on here.

Happy saving!!!

Sunday, February 19, 2006

More Dreams

I must have the need to share dreams when they happen. But lately, they are so visual and I remember bits and pieces of them clearly.

Last nights dream consisted of three people drowning in a pool. And I could not save them as someone was there to save them at all times from dying. Except one elderly woman, who had a heart attack and eventually in my dream ended up dying. And that woman's husband was arrested b/c he let her drive when she was obviously having medical problems and he knew it.

Dreammoods.com comes in handy again. Here are some of the interpretations:

Drowning:

To see someone drowning in your dream, suggests that you are becoming too deeply involved in something that is beyond your control. Alternatively, it represents a sense of loss in your own identity. You are unable to differentiate who you are anymore.

Pool:

To see a pool of water in your dream, denotes that you will find much happiness and pleasure in love and marriage. Your social life will keep you busy.

Heart Attack:

To dream that you have a heart attack, refers to a lack of support and acceptance. Perhaps you also feel a loss of love.

Arrested:

To dream that you are being arrested, indicates issues of control and restraint. Some aspect of your Self may have been prevented from fully developing. Alternatively, it suggests feelings of guilt.

Three:

Three signifies life, vitality, inner strength, completion, imagination, creativity, energy, and self-exploration. Three stands for trilogy as in the past, present, and future or father, mother, and child, etc.

It is funny how some of these things stick out and for some reason why the particular items stand out as they do.

Saturday, February 18, 2006

30 Minutes of ME!!

Funny post but true.

This past Thursday I hosted a Networking Breakfast for BossLady and one of the businessowners has a show on Saturday mornings entitled Austin Biz Facts. The businessowner is the host of the show and shortly after she left she called and asked BossLady to be on her show. She was unable to due to her judging a pageant this weekend. I offered to go in her place and she told me to go ahead and call her and tell her that. Me being me, I did it.

RJ, as she shall be known, called me back and was thrilled to have me on the show. I went back to BossLady and let her know it was a go. She then told me she was just kidding when she told me to go ahead and do it. I told her I was serious. Never extend a challenge to me and expect me to pass it up. Especially when it comes to radio or TV.

So I was up this morning at 4:30 AM to start getting ready. I got myself pulled together, suited up and out the door by 6:30 AM and made it to the TV studio at 7 AM. The producer was beyond thrilled that I was on time AND ready to go. She was also impressed by the wardrobe and the taupe shoes. Pageantry has helped me once again.

I was told there that the segment was a half hour long. I was shocked. I thought it was much shorter than that. But I did not mind. I had a wonderful time talking insurance and what people should look for and purchase. I just pray that everything that I said was correct and if it was not that not many people watch it.

It will be on Public Access TV here in Austin on 2/25 at 10AM on Channel 10.

I will be purchasing the copy on DVD along with taping it to show as many people as I can.

YEAH!!!!

Friday, February 17, 2006

Tag, you're it.

Why does this always happen to me ;)

I got tagged by Martini. Here's my List Of Seven Things. I must be on a numbers thing this week.

7 things to do before I die:
- Go on a family cruise with my parents, brother and niece
- Save more for retirement
- Feel like I am ahead of the game on everything
- Own a gorgeous 2ct diamond ring
- Own and operate a successful business
- Get my house completely remodeled
- Have at least two or three more children

7 things I cannot do (Or at least do not want to do):
- Revert back to my anorexic days
- Bungee jump
- Feel like I am unworthy of anything
- Expose my child(ren) to the Witch-In-Law and her drunk husband
- Give up my daily does of caffeine or chocolate
- Depend on anyone else for my happiness
- Feel out of control on anything

7 things that attract me to the opposite sex:
- Confidence
- Sense of humor
- Gorgeous eyes
- The ability to dream with me
- Stability in life
- Their love of children
- A go-getter type

7 things I say most often:
- "Because I said so"
- "Wht part of NO did you not understand. The N, the O or the space in between?"
- "I want a million dollars. Looks like we are both not getting what we want right away."
- "Oh My God!!!"
- "You're a nut!!"
- "Are you serious?!?!"
- "Thank you for calling Kathy McClellan, State Farm Insurance providing Finanacial Services, this is Carrie. How may I help you?"

7 books/authors/series I love:
- Anything Heartsong or Springflower (Christian books)
- Harlequinn Romance novels
- Sidney Sheldon books
- Parents Magazine (okay, but I read more magazines than books)
- True to life stories
- Self help books
- Recovery or 12 Step Help books

7 movies that I could watch over and over and over:
- Girls Just Want to Have Fun
- Miss Congeniality
- Erin Brockovich
- Beautiful
- Legally Blonde 1 & 2
- American Pie trilogy
- Mrs Ohio 2004 video

7 favorite songs:
- "Jesus, Take The Wheel" - Carrie Underwood
- "I Drove All Night" - Celine Dion
- "Since U Been Gone" - Kelly Clarkson
- "In This Skin" - Jessica Simpson
- "This Is The Night" - Clay Aiken
- "Wasted" - Carrie Underwood
- "Low" - Kelly Clarkson

Next up? Catwoman

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

The Rule of Three

This was way too good to pass up blogging about.

We were eating dinner tonight as a family and E asks me "So are you going to wear those cute little panties for me tonight?"

To backtrack a bit here, I purchased two thongs from the Avon catalog from one of my policyholders. They were less than $4 a piece so I thought "Why not?". That was my little indulgence for me.

So I politely informed him that I will wear them when I am ready. Not when he is ready. And asking like that invokes the Rule of Three.

What is the Rule of Three you ask?

If you have ever watched American Pie II you will know. They explain that when a person says they have slept with one person, they actually slept with three. If they say they slept with three people, they actually slept with one or none.

I have invoked the married version.

If you push me to do something I do not want to do or am not ready to do, that will be three more nights of no action. But give me three days of spoiling, kind actions and the ability to get to where I need to be on my own, that will one very good night of action.

Hope that was a great explanation of the married Rule of Three.

The Rollercosater of Life

Do you ever feel that you are on one gigantic roller coaster in life? That is my life lately.

Not getting into too much detail I feel that lately I am on the largest roller coaster ride. Cedar Point could make huge moeny on the one I am on. Big bucks!!!

I am a person that needs to be in control. I thrive on control. I can't live without control. And I feel completely out of control. When I think things are set in stone, they have a way of changing around and proving to me that not all is what it seems.

I know that this does not make a lot of sense to anyone but to know my full blown situation you would understand.

The past four days have done it for me. When I feel on a high about something the cart starts to dip and go downhill and I am either stressed or nervous or depressed. I know that I am not being super sensitive about things. That is not my style. But I hate the feeling of everything being up in the air.

YOu may now go back to your regularly scheduled programming. Thank you for listening.

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Finally! The Texas Experience

I have lived here over six months now and we finally had the Texas experience. And it all happened since my parents came here to visit.

Here is a breakdown, day by day.

Thursday: E and I worked a half day and then we headed to San Antonio. E was still on the clock and had to do a delivery and an install. Afterwards we went to the highlight of the trip for my dad, the Alamo. He is a huge history buff and to experience that chuck of history was incredible for him. It is odd to see a huge landmark right in the middle of downtown and then everything modern surrounding it. We got a kick out of seeing the places where Miss Congeniality was filmed and taking photos. After the Alamo we crossed the street and went down to the RiverWalk. That was absolutely amazing. The river runs in the middle of a bunch of restaurants and shopping places. We walked for a bit then went to Hard Rock Cafe for dinner. We took some more photos and decided to go for a boat ride. It takes you all around the RiverWalk and you can take in a lot of sites at the same time. Plus, the boat ride was extremely romantic and I enjoyed snuggling up to my husband on the ride. We saw more places where Miss Congeniality was filmed and that thrilled us to pieces. We are such fans of pageantry! After that, we drove home and promptly crashed. We were exhausted.

Friday: E had the day off and I went to a half day of work. My parents experienced breakfast tacos for the first time and liked them very much. They went with me on a drive to a life insurance appointment and waited for me to finish. We came back to my office and I finished he rest of my half day. Afterwards we went shopping at Wal-Mart and HEB Plus. They could not believe how big HEB Plus was and how much was in there. I think my mom was in heaven. We came home, ate sushi for lunch and watched movies for the rest of the rainy afternoon. We took it easy that night as I still had to work the next morning.

Saturday: I had a Health Fair I was working at and went there for the morning. My parents, E and B came to see me and go around the fair. We got B's child ID done and had him fingerprinted for safety purposes. Afterwards they went to Cabela's (a HUGE sports store) and I went to get pictures printed for my mom to take back with her. Once we were finished with our separate activities, we went to Texas Land and Cattle for dinner as my mom wanted an authentic Texas steak. She got her wish and we enjoyed our meals. Once we finished our dinner we went to the mall to get mom the salsa that she loves and went Lunar Golfing. We enjoyed ourselves with the exception of a birthday party that was out of control. To make up for it, the place gave us each a coupon for free round of golf. WOOHOO!!!

Sunday: We had to take the parents to the airport. It was hard to let them go but we just had to keep reminding ourselves that we had only six more weeks then we can see each other as much as we wanted to. Still didn't make it easy but it was reassuring. Then we went to Chuck E Cheese for a birthday party for a classmate of B's. It got our minds off the fact that they were gone. We also moved B's big boy bed into his room and got it all made up and ready for him for the night. He loves it!! But he wanted mommy to stay in the bed with him for one night. And of course I obliged.

Now on to the bigger task. Getting all of our job stuff settled and starting to pack. And getting stuff ready for a garage sale. Hope that we are able to get a lot accomplished over the next few weeks.

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Thursday, February 09, 2006

A Recap of B's 4th Birthday

Well, yesterday was B's fourth birthday. I still cannot believe that my baby is four now. It just seems like yesterday that I was in the hospital having him.

The day started out very well. E and I got up early and decorated B's door with a sign, streamers and balloons. It was cute when we were done. We were so anxious to see his response that we opened his door and told him to get up it was his birthday and shut the door again. He was up in a few seconds and opened the door. He started giggling when he saw the streamers and balloons. We got our morning cuddles and birthday singing out of the way and went to our room. He received a gift in the mail a few days before from his great grandparents in Akron (the ones we like) and he asked to open it. We obliged and found a book with a 35MM camera. He loved it.

Took B to school with cupcakes and gift bags for all of the kids in his class. He got some more birthday wishes and I took off for work. Realized that I forgot my cell phone and wallet at home I carefully drove back to the house and picked them up. Good thing I did as there was a message from my mom. They were at the airport getting ready to board the plane for Austin and wanted to let me know how everything went. After a couple of more calls they were on the plane and ready to take off. I resumed my work.

About 30 minutes later I get a call on my cell phone. It is my mom's cell. That is not a good sign as they were to be in the air. She called to let me know that as they were taking off, nearly air bound, the panel for the airplane went out and they had to do an emergency landing. They pulled to the side and had to wait. While on the phone I heard the captain in the background inform everyone that they needed to de-plane and go back into the airport. They were going to switch planes. What seemed like an easy fix was much harder and they had to go to another plane. By the time they got back in, they saw the mechanic in the engine area. Boy was I glad they were not completely airborne when that happened. I could have lost my parents!!! The plane was an hour late.

E and I met over at the airport to pick them up. After a frustrating round of "Find a Parking Spot in a Full Garage" we went to the passenger pick up area and parked there. E went in to get them and was out with them in minutes. I met Mom for a good hug and my dad walked right past me. He figured B was in the car and wanted to see him first. Nice Dad, at least I know where I rank!!! Told him that B was still in school and we would get him later.

Took Mom and Dad to Taco Cabana for lunch and then we did a little bit of last minute shopping for B's gifts. Once that was complete, went back to the house, got presents wrapped, the parents settled and then left to get B from school.

We get to the school and I sign him out. He still has no clue that my parents are there yet. I go into his classroom and ask him if he is ready to get his big surprise for his birthday. He looks at me confused and I tell him to close his eyes. The kids in his class tell him to close his eyes. I let my mom and dad in and told him to open his eyes. He does, looks at them in shock then leaps into his grandma's arms and hugs her tightly. Then he leans into his grandpa and hugs him. After that, he jumps down and starts telling all the kids, his teacher and any parent who will listen that they were his grandma and grandpa. He was ecstatic at this point.

We head home and I found another gift for him in the mailbox. Flexigirl sent his gift to him for his birthday. I was surprised b/c I did not see this coming. We walk into the house and he sees all of his presents wrapped up. He asks to open his presents at this point. I ask him if he wants to do that now or wait until after dinner. He gives me that look that says "Did you really ask me that question?" and tells me now. So we let him open the presents. My house now officially looks like Spider-Man has invaded it.

Once he is done with opening everything, we ask him where he wants to go for dinner. He says McDonald's. Yeah right. We ask if he wants that OR Chuck E Cheese. Well, that decision changed and off the Chuck E Cheese we go. We had a fun night of playing and eating pizza. After we finished there we went and bought an ice cream pie for dessert and came back to sing Happy Birthday. He did not have a famous cake made by Grandma but she is saving that for the move back.

We spent the rest of the evening watching American Idol and Lost with a fire going in the fireplace. A beautiful ending to a beautiful day.

Happy Birthday B!! Hope this will be one of your favorite birthdays that you will ever experience.

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

A Day Late and A Dollar Short

I swear I feel further and further behind every time.

It is hard to keep up with so much going on. This week alone we have my parents coming into town, B's birthday and crazy work schedules. It feels almost chaotic.

We had a pretty good weekend. Did not get to work out but did get some stuff accomplished. Lots of throwing away of stuff and putting stuff aside to sell at a garage sale or e-bay. I feel like Princess Mombi. Constantly cleaning out clutter. My goal is to come back to Ohio with less stuff than I came down to Texas with. Good thing my parents are coming up. I know my mom will clear my closet out for me. That will consist of her taking stuff that she wants and advising me of what I need to keep and get rid of.

Speaking of parents, the Witch-In-Law wrote. And it was not to the Ohio address. It was to the Texas address. She knows where we were at. That was a bit of a snippy letter. She sent him the renewal for the AAA membership that she purchases for him and told him that he could buy it himself if he wants it. So now he has been disowned, similar to me and the Sam's Club card.

Then she had the nerve to send B a birthday card and put it from her AND her drunk husband. Which is a HUGE no no. There is a reason that we exercise tough love and to receive that is detrimental to all of us.

Next card will turn into "Return To Sender".

Friday, February 03, 2006

I Was Tagged. Now you are to read it!!

50 Things

I was tagged by Martini

50 things you might not know about me -- erase my answers and put in your own, then repost in your own entry. Make sure you tag 3 people to join in. Have fun!!

1. What is your middle name? Anne

2. What size is your bed? King Size

3. What are you listening to? BOB FM. It is like a iPod for the radio

4. What are the last two digits in your phone number? 14

5. What was the last thing you ate? Popcorn last night

6. Last person you hugged? B

7. How is the weather right now? Sunny and blue skies

8. Who was the last person you talked to on the phone? E

9. The first thing you notice about the opposite sex? Build of the figure

10. Do you have a bf/gf? I better not. I do not think E would like that.

12. Do you drink? On small occassions

13. Ever get so drunk you don't remember the entire night? Nope. Too scared to be that far out of control.

14. Hair color? Ash blonde

15. Eye color? Blue with silver specks

16. Fav baseball team? Columbus Clippers

17. Fav animal? Cat and Okopi (anyone who has been to the zoo with me can respect this)

18. Favorite season? Summer.

19. Ever cried for no reason? Yes

20. Last movie you watched? American Wedding

29. What book are you reading? Laura's Baby. A Harlequinn Romance.

30. Piercings? Ears

31. Favorite movie? Depends on the day.

32. Favorite college team? OHIO STATE!! GO BUCKS!!

33. What are you doing right now? Typing this you moron!!

34. Any pets? Cat named Squeaky and a fish named Frankie

35. Dog or cat? Cat

36. Favorite flower? Yellow Rose

37. Have you ever been caught doing something you weren't supposed to? I suppose....

38. Have you ever loved someone? Definitely

39. Who would you like to see right now? A warm bed. I am sleepy.

40. Are you still friends with your ex's? Heck no! Too much damage has been done.

41. Have you ever fired a gun? Yes

42. Do you like to travel by plane? Yes.

43. Right or left handed? Left

44. If you could be with someone right now, who would it be? My mom or Flexigirl

45. How many pillows do you sleep with? 1

46. Are you missing someone? My mom and dad. They are too far but not for much longer.

47. Do you have a tattoo? No

48. Do you watch cartoons on Saturday morning? No

49. Are you hiding something from someone? Not today

50. Do you play an instrument? No

Now I have to tag 3 people: MissOhio92, Catwoman, Maynan Mombi

Have fun and have a great weekend.

Thursday, February 02, 2006

Massage Envy

I know that everyone has it when someone is given the gift of an hour massage.

Time to be envious of me!!!

BossLady came in and gave us our Valentine's Day gift early. It is for an hour long massage by one of our clients. I am ecstatic. I am in need of a good massage as the last one I had was well over a year ago.

I am touched. I am truly touched.